Hello I have a 11 month old daughter who’s father is not in her life. Wants to use visitation to control me. In contempt actions, you ask the court to enforce the order and make a finding that the other parent willfully disobeyed the court order. Gotta love the double standard here…smh, “Unfortunately, enforcement of a divorce decree sometimes depends on the attitude of your local law enforcement.”. It commonly occurs among divorced parents when someone misunderstands the terms of a court order or accidentally keeps the child for longer than they should. The most common forms of attempted theft are thefts of bikes or items left inside an unlocked vehicle. I walk everyday with a hole in my heart. But she is the first one to throw all the horseshit in my face you just slung on here. anything could happen but he would have to live in Illinois for six months and it there has been anything filed which I’m guessing since you have sole legal custody there it is set with the court then he has to go to that county that all of this has tookin place in. So trust me dads, these Courts go against Good moms too. im at the point in my life where my daughter is under my custody but try so hard to keep my family alive. i tired to be civil still since hes been absent and letting him know that he came back outta no where and is ordering me basically threatening me but if i told him to days ahead i have work and can not take my son at that time but later can i go to jail for that and will that be taken as me violating the court order even tho i tried to call two days ahead and he has not responded nor bothers to answer my texts explain why. Now Christmas comes about she wants to have my daughter for the holiday cool no problem now she not trying to give her back . He’s file d numerous tests but as long as a “passes 2 consecutive tests” he can get his visitation rights back. that is nole and void at this time no contract anything derived comes back to me 551913586 d1751740. I have sole legal custody of my son. My best advice to all of you is. Welcome to the Huntington Beach Police Department Citizens Online Crime Reporting System. The BLESSING of seeing your child nearly every day and raising them. Example: For example, an unknown person calls and immediately hang-ups or uses obscene language. No one will help you or hold him accountable. This whole time we have had joint custody and he never gives me my son when he’s supposed to. Once the report has been approved, a permanent SPD report number is issued and a copy of the final report will be emailed back to you. It’s been 2 months and I don’t know what’s going on with my kid. Willful disobedience of the terms as written of any court issued custody order. Using this online citizen police report system allows you to submit a report immediately and print a copy of the police report for free. I never know where my daughter is, who’s taking care of her or who’s gonna pick her up or drop her off. Do you wake up before the sun rises to make sure your child gets on the school bus? Most of these calls occur when the parties are going through the divorce process and tensions are running very high. And she has still gotton away with it. he’s filed another molestation accusation on me to try and get full custody easier (my daughter has never been molested, especially in my care) he’s been harassing me for two years. A common problem that many parents in child custody battles experience is the malicious false police reports generated by the nasty ex exhibiting sociopathic behaviors. She got a job three weeks after the order was signed that requires her to work weekends and she did not drop off the kids for visitation last weekend. Not being invilved for 6 years can be considered abandonment. I haven’t seen my daughter in 2 months. She is also coaching our children into being scared to go with me. However, reality- kids are with dad until mom decides not to let them go (after we just so happen to spend money buying tickets to an event for the kids), kids are not allowed to call dad AT ALL and dads number is blocked from contacting kids (kids stated to dad mommy said we can’t call). It is very unfortunate he isn’t answering his phone or returning your calls but there is no law stating he has to answer or call back but there are laws in place for not following the visitation schedules it will be considered kidnapping if you don’t take the child or have someone else take the child or offer for the child to be picked up from your house ir when you arrive at work. For violation of child custody orders where you would like documentation for future court hearings but do not currently want to press criminal charges on the causing party, follow the below link: Start Report Citizens Online Reporting System Main Page If you decide to call the police and file a report of a fake crime against someone else, it will be considered a false police report. And my daughter told me he moved far away now and she says some weeks she don’t see her dad. Most women don’t go to jail for child support I know its not fair but they are harder on men then they are women. Is this contempt of our parenting plan? I THINK I JUST FELT A BRICK OFF MY HEART. The police may say that you may need to take the issue up with the court. Trust me us women do to and sometimes we also don’t get to see our kids. I thought I’m getting custody Then social services say it’s up to the special guardian. That image is burning in my mind. There must be something I can do. Using the Modesto Police Department Police Online Citizen Reporting System you can report the incidents such as: Property Damage, Lost Property, Telephone Harassment, Thefts and Supplements. Do you know the name of their doctor? he then does not return her, he removes her from school during his non placement time and keeps her for 3 to 4 days( no knowledge of where she is staying) . unless you can come up with some kind of agreement. If this is an emergency, call 911. When is the last time you told that woman thank you for everything she does in a day for your child? For example, orders to arrest, seize property, or for injunctions, depend on law enforcement agencies to be effective. This is not the place for speculation, opinions, or conclusions. I dnt have family in buffalo so I had no support system and no were to stay , I had file a police report on what happens in his home and the next day I had left to Florida. Such people may suffer from a personality disorder associated with pathological lying such as BPD or NPD, but not all people with BPD or NPD will resort to filing false police reports. Kids/Mom are heartbroken, but dad who was abusive and controlling during the relationship, is happy and now trying still to control mom and kids. I wish I could still have some of the “burdens” that my ex took so nobly for her herself. I called the police, they met me at her house, where my son was. You’re working so hard, when you feel like it. It is being removed from me and she is being poisoned against me. Unfortunately, enforcement of a divorce decree sometimes depends on the attitude of your local law enforcement and filing a police report for a custody violation doesn’t always lead to a resolution. There is a difference in what maybe writing and what is practiced. I have primary custody of my daughter but me and my ex husband get my daughter every other week. 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